FRIENDS!!!! The Real Truth!!!!!

FRIEND

–noun


1. a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
 
There are about seven definition but this is by far the best....Sad thing is that many people know of the word, yet very few understand it...A lot of people think that the friends that have are real friend but nothing more then acquaintances. If you really needed something...nine time out of then they will not be there...or they are not willing to help...And as times go on, friendship is becoming harder to seek out because most people cant be true to themselves let alone another being. Distrust is the worst thing you can have an any friendship yet a lot of people base their friendships on distrust and fronts...Which honestly to me is pure and utter garbage...Why this rant???...Well I am about to break this down and then I want you to look at your people around you and figure our if what you think really exist or you just lost in the mist of drama and other BS.
 
1.)Lies-This right here is where I am going to start off as it is a good one. A true friend would never lie to you about a situation that you are caught up in...A true friend would only lies not to destroy your feelings...sometimes you need a kick to you hind end but a friend would never destroy you. If that is going on and they do it on a constant...Trash them...and I mean seriously...if you are near a dumpster or a trash can you might want to look into throwing them right into it....
 
2.)Drama-Stop!!! If a friend ever cause you drama about some he said she said bull...You need to confront them as soon as possible...First they will deny it as people don't like confrontation...Eventually they will break and then say well I didn't see any harm in what was said. They knew exactly what they were doing...Unless that friends is a little bit mentally retarded I don't think that passes...I mean don't get me wrong we have said things at the wrong time by accident and once every great while is okay but if it is happening all the time...don't be an idiot...tell them to kick rocks and on to the next one...
 
3.)Leechers-My personal favorite cause they are comedy. Always asking for something, not to borrow something or to help them out...they always want stuff to KEEP..They borrow something you never get it back...every time they come around they are needy or there is a favor to ask...you ask them to do something and they are like why would I do that and become petty about it...Feel sorry for no one my life is just as hard as anyone else...get over it grow up and handle your own...they will then get offended then they storm off like a cheesy villain with there plans being foiled by scooby doo and the gang...
 
4.)The Disappearing Homie-This is the most classic one to me...These are the quote friends who just randomly disappear and reappear in you life...The kind that goes to a party and leaves without saying bye...or better yet he is your ride and he leaves you at the party...Often they will hit the button when you call or don't respond back to text...hey are not in particularly bad but it isn't a healthy relationship...I mean you don't have to talk to your friends every day but not speaking to them for months at a time and you all didn't lose touch...yeah let it go...They must have better things to do or something...True friends always hit you even just to say whats up or talk about some really stupid stuff that happened or a new song they heard...I am not a phone person to be honest but I keep in touch with people...
 
5.) The Faker-The worst of the worst kind of friend. They are what you see in the high school movies or what you deal with in high school possibly. The friends who are only your friends behind close doors. When they see you out in public they avoid you at all cost...and if someone else was to see them talking to you they would make up an excuse...or they talk about you to that person...yet in all reality you always have conversations with them and they care but they have a quote rep to keep and you aren't part of it...It is amazingly sickening especially when you are grown...Sad thing is that a lot of people put up with this...I mean it goes on everywhere (work place, parties, gatherings, performances, etc) To be honest if you really want to see this type of friendship in person watch; Don't Buy Me Love, Breakfast Club, or any 80's teen movie for that fact of the matter...If someone doesn't want to be seen or noticed with you...only person you are hurting is yourself...Because you are lying to yourself...really don't you lie to yourself about enough...honestly...
 
Now back to the matter at hand, you are like wait wait but where are the good friends list...True friends exist under one category and it is just that...A TRUE Friend!!!!...True friends don't have categories...they are the person you call when you car is broke down and you are three hours away...they are the person you call when you need out of jail...true friends when called come quicker to your rescue then the super friends...hell they even come to your rescues when you aren't even sure that you need to be rescued...true friends are there...my true friends I have had for years...well most and to be a 100% honest i would take a bullet for them...I have friends who I have know for 20+ years and i would do everything for them...hell i go some new people in my small circle right now that I would go to war for...I don't ask question...I don't ask for anything in return...They just know because they would go to the same lengths for me...People tell me all the time I don't understand you and such and such...and I just shake my head and laugh...I would feel sorry for them but it is there issue that they don't have true friends...my friends are more then that...they are my family...i would introduce them as my family...ya know even if we lose touch...when we meet up again...you would swear we never missed a beat...the little things are just that little and they would never come between that relationship...you brush that off and move along...Think about it...for you true friends how far would you go for them...better yet how far would they go for you...Do they actually help you or do they hinder you...Do they come thru when needed...or they like leaves in the breeze...In a day where most people are about as really as a girls chest in a porno movie you need to beware of those around you...Now I am not saying Trust No One...Life isn't the Thing or Total Drama Island...you have to trust otherwise you wont get anywhere...but if your circle of friends and i mean close circle is more then twenty then you need to question your circle...My circle is decent sized but I mean they have been accumulated over a life time...If you find yourself questioning your relationship with said person...you need to roll them out like a virgin at a strip club...because you are only kidding yourself if you believe things are going to pop off...well they might just not the way you want them...
 
Oh yeah by the way you want to know what kind of friend I am...lol...well if you are lucky then you already know...if you are not...well...you will be alright...
 
I am Lost N Mind....
 
Meth Wun Signing Out!!!!